Come back and stay.

When I was in 6th grade, I met a guy. He's a total jerk all out, but I fell for him. I loved him for a year and then 'got over him.' Everyone told me it was just puppy love. But, here I am. 8th grade. I still think about him all the time and a lot of feelings for him are resurfacing. I'm not sure if I should tell him I still like him (he knew before.) I know a lot of people say, "Don't tell the guy!" But I've always been big on telling him, even though I know he doesn't like me. Ideas? from loverat222

If you’re brave enough to get hurt and be rejected, tell him. If not, keep it to yourself. :)


i had this sort of M.U with a boy and he's one of my close circle of friends since high school. He looks nerdy way back then but I really liked him a lot even if he looks like that... until now, I still like him. well, he looks pretty handsome now. lots of girls have a crush on him ever since he had that transformation. but still we had this M.U going on. he gives me gifts and surprises me. but.... he doesn't communicate with me often. does he like me? or he's not worth of my time anymore,? from Anonymous

I really can’t say if he likes you or not. No one knows but him.

Maybe, he has his reasons why he can’t always talk to you.

If you really wanna know if he likes you or not, keep in touch. Look for clues. :)


I kno boys are complicated , but the guy i dated for almost a year that cheated on me with my best friend has just been an asshole . We don't talk but I do of course still care about him & have feelings for him , Im staying happy the best i can but he wont say a word too me or even give me a single look , hes even admitted it , his mom asked if he talked to me & he goes I dont even look at her , Why . ?? from stillstandingbarelybreathing

I really don’t know. He’s the only one who has the answers. You have to talk to him to clear things so you could move on.


Theres this guy. weve been dating for a little while now but were starting to have problems.He got really drunk one night&said that he was gonna just use me for sex&then make me mad so id break up with him.I asked him about it-he denied it of course. We talked for a little bit&then made plans to hang out&talk face to face about it.I showed up and waited for 2 hours--he never came.apparently he got stuck at a party the night before. Am i wrong to be mad? What should i do? this feels terrible.:( from Anonymous

It’s not your fault to be mad at him. You’re his girlfriend. He should be treating you like a princess. He’s obviously taking you for granted. Why do you even allow yourself to get hurt?

If he doesn’t exert any effort to explain things, you better leave.


heyy :) well i heard you give great advice and i have a problem :p my ex broke up with me a while ago and we stayed friends but he started getting really jealous so he'd annoy me to get my attention. Lately he's been taking it to extremes like to the point where he hurts me. like he was poking me really hard and left me with red marks and he started pushing me so about 5 of his friends circled around me and started hurting/touching me i've told him to stop, he won't listen, idk what to do :s from Anonymous

If I were in your position, I would go away from that person. Hurting a woman physically and emotionally will never be excused.

He’s making you look stupid because you allow him to do what he wants. If he doesn’t want to stop, you are the one who’s going to make a way.


(2/2) & he was like what is it one hug per day maximum and I was like yeah. & then he jokingly was like why you playing games. & he was like youre gonna be my girlfriend one day and he kissed me on the cheek and walked away. He never did that before and idk if he’s serious about liking me or not?

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My reply:

You don’t know him too well. That’s the reason why you’re having doubts if he’s serious or not. I suggest that you ask around if he does that to anyone. You could also take things slow to know him better.


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 and 1/2 months. And I love him. but not how I used to. And was talking to one of my friends. And he's really sweet and Me and him start flirting and texting all the time. I feel lke I'm cheating...Help?? from Anonymous

Think about what you feel. If you don’t really love your boyfriend that much anymore, break up with him. No one deserves to be treated that way. You will just hurt him more.

If the relationship is really important for you, you have to distance yourself from the other guy.