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my boyfriend and i just had a massive fight, because he doesn't trust me.. it was my best friends birthday party last night and i asked him to come except he didnt want too, so i went on my own, obviously there were other guys there and other girls and i was talking to everyone and i didnt do anything with any other guy because i love my boyfriend and would never do anything. after i got home, i messaged him and said that im home, and will talk to you tomorrow, then today he rang me and got mad. from Anonymous

Don’t do anything that would make him more mad. Give him space to calm down. When the two of you are calm, that’s the time you talk. Listen very well. After that, it’s his turn to listen. Constantly remind him how much he means to you. :)

Posted 1 year ago
The whole school thinks my best guy friend and I are dating. We aren't, but I really like him, and one of my other friends who used to be close with him thinks he likes me too. He won't date me because of the best friend rule (don't date your best friend rule). He might be slipping now. If he decides he'll date me, then I have to have the strength to say no. Our friendship is too important to risk on a relationship that probably won't last. I just need to find that strength. from Anonymous

It’s really nice of you to respect whatever you guys have now. Just don’t suppress your feelings too much because of the “best friend rule”. If you really don’t want to date him because friendship is too important for you, just say no. Don’t leave him hanging. Explain and give your reasons.

You don’t really have to find strength. You have to find what makes you happy.

Posted 1 year ago
hey my friend said you give great advice, so i was wondering if you could help me with this problem i went out with this guy i really liked and i actually began to love him for about one year but after we started breaking up and getting back together and then i found out he cheated on me..i broke up with him but he stills calls me everyday and part of me doesn't want to let him go we even talked about marriage and everything but i can't trust him should i just let him go ? from Anonymous

The fact that you’re confused if you have to let him go or not means that you’re still inlove with him. It also means that something is hurting you. I’m not in the position to tell you to just let everything go. All I can advice is for you to see the amount of effort he exerts to win you back. In that way, you’ll be able to know if it’s still worth it. :)

Posted 1 year ago
I really like this guy && I'm meeting him out this weekend, should I confess ? or stay silent ? )): from Anonymous

It’s really up to you. :)

If you want to tell him, you should be ready to be rejected. If he feels the same way, you’re very lucky! :)

Just remember, find the right place and time. :)

Posted 1 year ago 1 note

I love my boyfriend so much!! aND HE THINKS I AM cheating on him but i never did so.. we have a long distance relationship and he feels insecure. i think it is because he had a girl cheat on him before. But i want to be with him and I want him to feel safe. He feels really insecure when i am around my guy friends!! Help what can i do to prove him that i love him and that i am going to sacrifice all my love just for him…

HELP…

Submitted by angelamangueira

My reply:

Distance doesn’t destroy relationship. Doubts do. It’s no longer your problem if he doesn’t believe you. Just keep the communication open. Maybe what he wants you to do is to constantly remind him about what you feel. :)

Posted 1 year ago
So I was dating this guy Jared for almost a year ohman were we in love he meant soo much too me one weekend he was acting strange&then he told me he loved me but didnt want a relationship i was crushed Well I found out he was with my BESTFRIEND that weekend&they made out , held hands , texted all flirty&he hid her from me when i went over&as i left kissed her they talk about dating but dont evn talk at school im ok but me&him arnt friends&it still kinda hurts too see him , What should i do ? from stillstandingbarelybreathing

Move on. I think that’s way better than crawling back to him after what he did. For now, it’s okay to be selfish. Think of what will be the best for you and what will make you truly happy. You deserve that. :)

Posted 1 year ago 1 note