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carmen16 submitted:

I really need some advice with a guy… I can’t say that I’m in love but I really really like him… and when we first meet we were just fooling around and and neither of us expected to start liking each other so much or start to care about us… so when we went out it was like the most awesome date I’ve ever had and even he said so without me telling him what I was thinking he was soo sweet and caring and we felt like we have known each other our whole lives and it was so amazing being with him it just right… and we went out a couple of times after that ( we even went to the movies and he let me choose a movie he had already seen and didn’t tell me anything until we were already in our seats… isn’t that cute? ) but after that he just disappear and at first I was kind of sad  obviously but keep going with my life and moved on… but the other night he texted me saying hi and then a few night after that he drunk called me and started saying things like he missed me and stuff like that so a few days later I got the courage to ask him what had happened between us and he said that he got scared because he wasn’t sure that he wanted to be in a relationship so but that he missed me and he didn’t want to stop talking like we did before because he felt good talking to me, he felt like I was always there for him and that’s the truth and really want to keep talking to him but I don’t know if its the right thing to do for me because I am scared that if a start falling again he would disappear… what do you think? ohh and I really think that you are an extraordinary person for doing things like this for people that you don’t even know!

My reply:

If you really like him, you wouldn’t give up unless you’re very tired. Some guys are not ready to commit. I think it’s a good thing that he told you the truth so you won’t overthink and expect anything. Choose what will make you happy. Sometimes, you have to take risks. :)